Hi Pauline,
It's impossible for us to give in depth advice on individual claims, as we don't have access to your case file.
The best advice I can offer is to seek 'face to face' advice from a welfare rights adviser with a view to lodging an appeal. If you wish to appeal you must do so within one month of the date of the DWP informed you of their decision. You appeal on form GL24 which you can download
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There is no need to put detailed information on the GL24, a simple statement such as " I do not believe that the Decision Maker has fully taken into account my care needs, further evidence to follow" would be sufficient.
One thing I do note, is that you state you told the DLA Unit about the changes to your condition over the 'phone. It's always better to do this in writing, that way you can be sure that this will have bee seen by the Decision Maker dealing with your case.
To reiterate, you need advice and help to put together an appeal from a welfare rights adviser. You local CAB should be able to assist you with this, or pass you to an organisation that can.
I realise that it's too late for you now, but we never advise that claimants opt for a 'reconsideration'. If their claim is refused, we advise to go straight for appeal, as before an appeal is passed to the Tribunals Service by the DWP, it is always automatically looked at again by a more senior Decision Maker. However, the success rate for 'reconsideration' is only around 10%, as opposed to around a 55% success rate if a claimant opts for an 'oral hearing' which means they attend and can give information to the tribunal and address any questions the tribunal may have.
If you do submit an appeal, then again it will be looked at by a more senior DM., but to be honest as you've already had a 'reconsideration' your chances of having your care award increased are pretty slim from my experience as a WRO and former DLA Tribunal Member for 10 years until I retired in late 2005.
Have you read the guides on DLA Appeals in the members area, if not I'd advise you to have a look at them.
Also, you can find general advice about how tribunals work and other useful information on appealing on the Tribunals Service website
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I hope this is of some help to you, but do contact your CAB as soon as possible, as they can read all your case papers and decide on the best way to word your appeal.
Best wishes.
Jim