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Welcome to the forum, you might want to have a look at the following FAQ which explain where everything is
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My full name is showing, how can I stop it?
It really doesn't matter what your house looks like, although it wouldn't hurt to make it clear that your mother does the cleaning.
Nor do you need to hide any books, if you now struggle to read, which I can understand, then just explain this.
Gordon