hi Gordon, I'm just scared now that they use the fact that I see my dad against me. It is the only way I can see him as he is now housebound and I cannot drive or afford someone to drive me all the way. I have to force myself to make the journey and get a cab to and from each br station. So they will probably say I am fine to make journeys on my own wheras it is a struggle for me and I do not go as often as I would like to.
