Roger
I can't allow your post as it contains your email address without your specific permission.
Whilst the forum requires membership of B&W to post, anybody on the internet can read the posts and by including your email address you are opening yourself to spamming, etc.
As to Cruella, her problems with an MR are not due to lack of information on the process but rather whether she can mentally and physically manage the process.
Gordon
Nothing on this board constitutes legal advice - always consult a professional about specific problems 
