Universal credit and the need to constantly be sure I’m doing everything right

Thank you so much for all your help David it is so appreciated
Can I ask one last question
Am i allowed to be an appointee for my daughters pip if i receive contribution based esa support group legacy benefit myself
Do I need to tell ESA , because I’m sure they said no when I asked

Thanks so much
Is this something then that is classed as a change of circumstances with you saying it would be best to get in writing , is being an appointee when your In support group contribution based
Something you have to ring and notify , as I don’t have it in writing and now I’m anxious that as I don’t have it in writing they could say I didn’t tell them and I will be in trouble thanks , I rang as I tell everyone everything , but I didn’t get it in writing the advisor said I didn’t need to tell them because it’s an administrative thing for my daughters benefits not a job or change in my health , but some advisors say different things about holidays , ( I’m not asking about holidays ) it was just a comparison
I have severe anxiety so with you saying get in writing in this something that is notifiable could they say I’ve done something wrong if I don’t have proof I rang them if they ever question me ? do you get what I mean I’m so sorry David thank you