Hi S
Welcome to the forum, you might want to have a look at the following FAQ which explains where everything is
Welcome to Benefits and Work In case you are not aware, your real name appears to be showing in the forum, if you want to change this then follow the instructions in the following FAQ
My full name is showing, how can I stop it?
A friend or carer is not part of the assessment process unless you ask if they can speak on your behalf. Just tell the assessor they are with you for moral support. They do not have to say a word.
BIS