Hi Denby, thank you for the support, its most welcome.

I am in my 50s and left with a life unlived that could have been very different. It galls me that they keep trying to drown me instead of throwing me a life raft.
I am currently working on my complaint to Capita and its not pretty, their response to my complaint was for me to behave like a neurotypical.. haha more abelism - unbelievable.. anyway I am not even angry just determined now, not just for me but for you and others like us and those who are placed into this ridiculous situation of systematic failures..