S
Welcome to the forum, you might want to have a look at the following FAQ which explains where everything is
Welcome to Benefits and Work In case you are not aware, your real name appears to be showing in the forum, if you want to change this then follow the instructions in the following FAQ
My full name is showing, how can I stop it?
Only one of you can be paid the extra money for being unable to work due to your health, assuming one of you qualifies for this. Although he won't receive any extra money, being declared as unfit will excuse your husband from being required to seek work.
Gordon