seasicksteve
We did reply to your post asking about this yesterday. You can always find your recent posts by clicking on your forum name as it appears on the site, for example; to the left of your post above.
I'm afraid your questions are outside of the advice we can give on the forum, you really need to get face to face advice about this matter, do an internet search for "welfare advice" with your postcode, town or county.
Gordon
Nothing on this board constitutes legal advice - always consult a professional about specific problems