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5 years 5 months ago #240670 by Perdita
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If I opt to do MR, and ask my consultant to explain that prompting would not be sufficient to enable me to touch raw meat, veg etc - should he write the letter titled as support for MR?
The thing is the Award says prompting for other activities where prompting would not work for me. eg the engaging face to face/mixing with others
The prompting points for activities such as washing, dressing, etc I can accept those because although prompting would not work, I can actually, eventually! do the activities but just not in a reasonable time.
It is the preparing/cooking a simple meal that I could not do at all even with prompting.so I think I should focus on challenging this one.
However the mixing with other people, where it says needs prompting to engage with others - this is a trickier one. Is the social support a majority of the time one, and the opd meant to be all the time? I am okay only with my son, but I see him as my 'social support'.and he is not here majority of the time. I very rarely have more than fleeting contact with anyone else (fleeting contact with delivery people).
I know that prompting isn't sufficient for me, not prompting by any person,but again how to prove this? Consultant wrote has not seen friends and some family members for years, only has telephone contact plus he writes extremely distressed with strangers, and all consultations done by phone. I .described on the Review exactly the difficulties. Do you think i need even more evidence from my consultant on this?
The thing is the Award says prompting for other activities where prompting would not work for me. eg the engaging face to face/mixing with others
The prompting points for activities such as washing, dressing, etc I can accept those because although prompting would not work, I can actually, eventually! do the activities but just not in a reasonable time.
It is the preparing/cooking a simple meal that I could not do at all even with prompting.so I think I should focus on challenging this one.
However the mixing with other people, where it says needs prompting to engage with others - this is a trickier one. Is the social support a majority of the time one, and the opd meant to be all the time? I am okay only with my son, but I see him as my 'social support'.and he is not here majority of the time. I very rarely have more than fleeting contact with anyone else (fleeting contact with delivery people).
I know that prompting isn't sufficient for me, not prompting by any person,but again how to prove this? Consultant wrote has not seen friends and some family members for years, only has telephone contact plus he writes extremely distressed with strangers, and all consultations done by phone. I .described on the Review exactly the difficulties. Do you think i need even more evidence from my consultant on this?
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5 years 5 months ago #240671 by Gordon
They may have been using DM as a descriptive term, i.e. a person who makes Decisions.
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Cruella wrote: Do Claims Managers call themselves DMs over the phone to claimants sometimes. I didn't feel I was talking to someone very senior.
They may have been using DM as a descriptive term, i.e. a person who makes Decisions.
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5 years 5 months ago #240678 by Gordon
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He can write this if you want but he does not need to.
Concentrate on the need for Social Support not on your receiving it. From memory, your arguments for this were weak as you could not show a general need rather relying on the presence of your son and as he was not present for the majority of the time, so yes, you are going to need more evidence about this.
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He can write this if you want but he does not need to.
Concentrate on the need for Social Support not on your receiving it. From memory, your arguments for this were weak as you could not show a general need rather relying on the presence of your son and as he was not present for the majority of the time, so yes, you are going to need more evidence about this.
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5 years 5 months ago #240681 by Perdita
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Do you mean that my consultant does not need to write he is supporting MR or you dont think he needs to write that prompting would not be sufficient for me to touch raw veg/meat
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5 years 5 months ago #240686 by Gordon
He does not need to write that he supporting your MR.
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Cruella wrote: Do you mean that my consultant does not need to write he is supporting MR or you dont think he needs to write that prompting would not be sufficient for me to touch raw veg/meat
He does not need to write that he supporting your MR.
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5 years 5 months ago #240688 by Perdita
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When i did the review paperwork, i took on board how you and another on the forum suggested to write about the need for social support. I did not mention my son because he is not here at the mo, and so described about the need for a person who I trusted implicitly and who was very experienced with my ocd. I did use the words that may be considered prompting type words but emphasised how the person 'reassuring, calming, explaining etc would have to be the right person( experienced with my ocd etc as described in earlier sentence). I explained the opd equivalent when having to be near people eg urgent tradesman - the before, during, after, and how I need support throughout by a specific experienced person. I don't think I could have described it any better. However, my consultant's letter detail is a bit briefer than mine (but of course the medical assessor seems to have not seen his second letter sent same time as the first with the Review form.
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